Who does not know this situation: scrolling through your Instagram account and thinking
“Wow, how can they all be so successful? What am I doing wrong? “
So I think this for my part quite often, especially when I see blogger, who seem to be able to live from their blog or their Instagram. Often there comes also the secondary thought “You never make that anyway”. Stop!
Here the failure already begins. Those who don’t even believe in themselves, show this attitude outward. People however, who believe in themselves and their future success, exude that certain awareness. They are often treated as if they were already successful. So does the theory “Fake it till you make it” actually work?
The theory is that you can get to the actual success by simulating self-confidence. In my opinion, the attitude has a lot to do with the external perception. Confident people seem to be much more successful, brighter and perhaps even happier. This attitude also influences one’s own feeling for the better.
Many will now say “Why should I play a role of a person I’m not?” It’s quite simple, it is the role of a person you would like to be. This role should not be played for a lifetime, but only until you actually became that person.
With this tactic I refer only on the principle of “Fake it till you make it”. I don’t want to say that you should play a role of a completely different life in front of other people, just to please them or to please somebody.
Now I have 3 tips for you how you can get faster to success:
• Take you an ideal, consider well how this ideal would act in certain situations, for example, how this person would make the pic for Instagram. But watch out, it’s important that you don’t copy this person.
• Be confident! At the beginning, I was often ridiculed when I started blogging. Today I get admiring glances for my perseverance and success, which I achieved so far. What you are doing is right and you can be proud of it!
• Put on realistic goals and document your success. If your goals aren’t realistic, you’ll soon be disappointed and perhaps give up quickly.
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