{"id":2452,"date":"2017-04-26T14:25:40","date_gmt":"2017-04-26T14:25:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/besassique.com\/?p=2452"},"modified":"2021-05-11T19:40:52","modified_gmt":"2021-05-11T17:40:52","slug":"bloguntergang-selbstvertrauen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/besassique.com\/en\/bloguntergang-selbstvertrauen\/","title":{"rendered":"Blog downfall or how you believe in yourself again"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hi Unique,<\/p>\n

Imagine you are sitting in your favorite coffee house, directly at the window, at a small round table with the cup in your hand. You look outside, you see all these people rushing past you and still see nothing. Th contours blur and everything passes by you. Absorbed in thought, you sip your drink. Somehow it does not taste as good as usual.<\/p>\n

What's up with you?<\/h3>\n

You think about what they said. You think about what you read. And finally, yes, you think about what opinion you actually have.
\nYou open your laptop and completely automatic your fingers begin to type. You write down everything you did not say. Everything you sorted out with yourself.
\nYour fingers are getting faster, almost hectic, and yet - you relax with each sentence and every little click a bit more.
\nAnd then? Then it is suddenly over. You're done.
\nWhen you read your text again, you know what's going on.<\/p>\n

You're afraid. Can you really make it? Do all your efforts really make sense? Or will it be as the others predict?<\/p>\n

Press Day Gossip - Blog downfall?<\/h2>\n

This week it comes around again. Press Days in Munich - and during that time, there is always a lot of talk and discussion. And again and again this one topic came up: Does my blog still make sense? Has not Instagram long since taken the most important place?
\nAnd the longer I listened, and the more I heard the opinions of others, the more uncertain I became - until this very different conversation.<\/p>\n

Instagram is totally surfeited. I can\u2019t see it anymore.
\nThe 100th metallic pleated skirt, the 1000th pancake variation and the always same Gucci handbags<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Suddenly I thought she was right. Of course I love all the beautiful pictures and all the great inspiration. But at this very moment, I realized I do not want to give up my blog. I do not want to think blogs to be not relevant anymore. Because yes, I believe in my blog.<\/p>\n

You now are wondering who this girl was, and I think it's the right time to thank her: Dear Jessi, thank you for your honest opinion and the inspiration for this blog post. For it was not just this one sentence, but also your whole occurrence, which has made me write all this down here. You are a person full of self-confidence and you stand completely by your opinion. Stay as you are!<\/p>\n

Well, I've really doubted about myself, my performance and my blog. But not only I, but also many other bloggers like Franziska-Elea or Masha Sedwick have doubts about it.
\nDespite everything, I still have doubts about myself and my performance. In my blog I could now believe again. It became clear to me: I need a large dose of self-confidence. So I searched, googled and read. My search results I would like to share with you today.<\/p>\n

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